In a mixing bowl, add wheat flour or bhakhri flour. Add 1/2 cup ghee, clarified butter, to it. Mix everything
Slowly add water and kneed firm dough
Now make parts and firmly make muthiya
If deep frying, add ghee to frying pan and deep fry the muthiyas until golden brown
If air frying, put muthiyas in air fryer on 350 and let it turn golden brown. Flip every 5-7 mins. Every air fryer is different it may take 12-15 mins for muthiyas to turn golden brown.
Break muthiyas with spoon for speedy cool down. When cooled down crush it in mixer/grinder.
Pass this crushed mixer from strainer. Add cardamom powder, nutmeg powder and golden raisins to it
If making with sugar, Add sugar to all dried ingredients and add 1 cup warm ghee to it and mix everything
If making with Jaggery, Add 1 cup ghee (here you can use the ghee you used for deep frying) to deep pan, let it turn warm. Add 1 cup jaggery to it and on medium heat let it cook until jaggery starts coming on top then add it to the dried ingredients and mix everything
Tip: when working with warm ghee always, mix things with big saptula and avoid using hands as much as you can
When mixture comes to room temperatute use hands to make laddoos
After making laddoos, tap it on the dish to make sure it doen't break
Roll laddoos in poppy seed.
Eat warm or cooled dowm.