1/4to 1/2 cup whole milk or wateras needed, to loosen
3/4to 1 tsp fine saltor to taste
For the temper
2tspoiluse neutral oil or coconut oil; ghee if not vegan
1tspmustard seeds
1tspurad dalsplit skinned black gram
1tspchana dalsplit Bengal gram; optional but nice for crunch
1to 2 dried red chiliesbroken
1sprigcurry leavesabout 12 leaves
1tbspgingerpeeled and finely chopped
1pinchasafoetidahing; optional; omit or use GF hing for gluten free
To finish
2tbspfresh corianderchopped
2tbsppomegranate arilsoptional
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Instructions
Cook the millet
Rinse foxtail millet in several changes of water until the runoff looks less cloudy.
In a saucepan with a tight lid, combine drained millet, 2 cups water, and 1/2 tsp salt. Bring to a boil, then reduce to a low simmer and cover.
Cook until water is absorbed and grains are tender, 12 to 18 minutes depending on your millet age. Rest covered 5 minutes, then fluff with a fork.
Spread the cooked millet on a wide plate or baking tray so steam escapes. Cool completely, at least 20 to 30 minutes. Warm millet will seize the curd.
Whisk the curd
Whisk curd until smooth. Stir in milk or water until you like the pour consistency (slightly looser than pancake batter is a good target).
Taste and add salt. Remember the millet was salted lightly during cooking.
Make the temper
Heat oil in a small pan over medium heat. Add mustard seeds. When they pop, add urad dal and chana dal if using. Fry until the dals turn golden, watching closely.
Add dried red chilies, curry leaves (stand back; they splutter), ginger, and hing if using. Fry until ginger smells bright, about 30 seconds.
Pour the hot temper over the cooled millet and toss gently to distribute.
Mix and serve
Add the millet to a large bowl. Fold in the whisked curd in two additions so you do not crush grains.
Rest 10 minutes if you can; millet continues to absorb curd.
Garnish with coriander and pomegranate if using. Serve with pickle or cucumber raita for extra cooling.
Notes
Mushy bowl: next time use a touch less water, cool longer, or fold in extra whisked curd at the end without heating.Vegan: use thick unsweetened plant yogurt and neutral or coconut oil. Skip dairy milk; use water to loosen.Make ahead: keep cooled millet, whisked curd, and temper separate until up to a few hours before serving; mix cold and adjust salt.Storage: refrigerate in an airtight container up to 1 day. Thayir sadam is best cold or room temp; avoid microwaving if you can.