1/4cupfull-fat yogurt or Greek yogurtwhisked, room temperature
1/2teaspooncoriander powder
1/4teaspoongaram masala
1 1/2teaspoonsfreshly crushed black peppercornsplus a pinch to finish
3/4teaspoonsaltor to taste
3/4cupwaterplus more as needed
2tablespoonsheavy cream
1teaspoonkasuri methicrushed, optional
To finish
fresh cilantrochopped
1tablespooncreamto swirl
extra crushed black pepper
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Instructions
Prep
If the paneer is packaged, soak the cubes in warm water for 15 to 20 minutes. Drain and pat dry.
Crush the peppercorns coarse. You want flecks, not a fine powder.
Whisk the yogurt until smooth. Leave it on the counter so it is not cold.
Make the paste
Heat 1 tablespoon oil in the pan over medium heat. Add cardamom and cloves if using. Let them smell fragrant, about 20 seconds.
Add the onion, ginger, green chilli, and cashews. Cook 5 to 6 minutes, stirring, until the onion is soft and blush-pink to light gold. Do not let it brown.
Cool 2 minutes. Blend with 1/3 cup water until completely smooth. The paste should look pale, almost ivory.
Optional paneer sear
Wipe the pan. Heat 1 teaspoon oil over medium-high. Sear the paneer 1 to 2 minutes until the edges take a little color. Lift out and set aside. Skip this if you want the cubes fully soft.
Cook the gravy
Heat 1 1/2 tablespoons oil in the same pan over medium-low. Add the onion-cashew paste. Cook 4 to 5 minutes, stirring, until a few oil specks show at the edges. If it sticks, splash in a tablespoon of water. The paste should stay pale.
Take the pan off the heat. Add the whisked yogurt and stir fast until it disappears into the paste.
Return the pan to low heat. Add coriander powder, garam masala, salt, and the crushed pepper. Stir 20 seconds.
Add 3/4 cup water. Swirl that water in the blender jar first so no paste is wasted. Simmer 3 to 4 minutes until the gravy looks smooth and coats a spoon.
Stir in the cream. Add the paneer. Simmer 2 to 3 minutes on low, just until the cubes are hot. Do not boil hard or the paneer tightens.
Crush kasuri methi between your palms if using and stir it in. Taste. Add a pinch more pepper if the gravy tastes shy.
Serve
Spoon into a warm bowl. Swirl a little cream, scatter cilantro, and finish with extra crushed kali mirch. Serve hot.
Notes
Keep the onions pale. Brown onions make a beige korma, not kali mirch.Yogurt must be full-fat, whisked, and room temperature. Add it off the heat.Fresh coarse pepper is the dish. Jarred powder is a backup, not the first choice.No tomato and no turmeric if you want an ivory gravy.For a Jain plate, skip onion and ginger. Bloom a pinch of hing in the oil, blend extra cashews (16 to 18) with a splash of yogurt, and carry on. The pepper still leads.Vegan: extra-firm tofu in place of paneer, unsweetened plain plant yogurt, and cashew cream instead of dairy cream.Store leftovers in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to 3 days. Freeze the gravy without paneer for up to 1 month. Add fresh paneer when you reheat.Leftovers reheat on low with a splash of water. The pepper gets louder the next day.